Seraphine Store in Dubai Festival City Mall

Seraphine Flagship Store opens in Dubai

“Seraphine, Dubai’s one-stop store, fulfilling all your maternity & babymoon fashion needs “

Seraphine Dubai

Breathtaking interior décor

 

Dubai Festival City, 1st floor

Dubai Festival City Mall, 1st floor

 

A Seraphine frame group photo with fellow bloggers in Dubai.

A Seraphine flower frame group photo with fellow bloggers in Dubai.

 

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Girls having fun during the opening of Seraphine store in Dubai Festival City Mall

 

Canapés served

Canapés served

 

Love. Dubai. Seraphine.

Love. Dubai. Seraphine.

Seraphine Maternity Wear

Most mothers will agree that prior to becoming pregnant and giving birth, wardrobe shopping in Dubai is a paradise on earth; whereas maternity wear options become painfully limited when a woman becomes pregnant. Not any more, ladies. Seraphine, one of a kind luxury maternity wear store is now open in Dubai’s most popular Festival City Mall.

During the official opening of the Seraphine store a couple of days ago I discovered stunning maternity collections. Speaking of high-end & glamorous fashion, Seraphine gowns & dresses are some of the most loved picks of the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton. She has been spotted wearing Seraphine’s popular dresses on several occasions, which caused a massive hype among the fashion fans.

 

Kate Middleton the Duchess of Cambridge wearing Seraphine dress

 

Kate Middleton spotted wearing Pink Fuchsia Knot Front Maternity Dress

So mamas-to-be, if you run out of stylish maternity wear options in Dubai, or are looking to rejuvenate your mama fashion, you need look no further than Seraphine store for all your babymoon shopping needs.

 

Stylish & Versatile Breastfeeding Shawl

Nursing Shawl in Ice Blue Bamboo Summer

Luxury Knitted Nursing Shawl can be used for layered look

 

Nursing Shawl Ice Blue Bamboo Summer

Stylish Nursing Shawl Ice Blue Bamboo Summer

 

Seraphine’s maternity fashion line does not end there; it extends from Maternity Dresses to Maternity Jeans, from Maternity Swimwear to Exclusive range of Baby Clothes & many more. Explore the entire collection on Seraphine website http://www.seraphine.com/

Long Sleeve Pink Trim Cotton Baby Grow

Long Sleeve Pink Trim Cotton Baby Grow

 

Seraphine Maternity Jeans

Seraphine Maternity Jeans

 

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Mother of 2 Photoshoot campaign

Mother of 2 Photoshoot campaign: The 2nd Annual Natural Birth & Breastfeeding CONFERENCE & EXHIBITION by Nature’s Way

It’s been such a pleasure working with the founder, her little bundle of joy, my son Sultan and of course the highly talented photographer Asha from Velvet Images. The photoshoot took place at the comfort of Asha’s apartment studio in DSO, where we completely felt welcomed and relaxed throughout the photoshoot. Asha is specialized in newborn, maternity & family photography. I hope you love the photos as much as I do. See for yourself.

Here are few of our fun moments captured in amazing photos:

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Photoshoot

About Nature’s Way:

If you are a mother, father, a baby’s or child’s relative, or even just affectionate about baby developmental stages, then Nature’s Way, a Dubai’s established organizer of exclusive Pregnancy, Birth and Parenting events and workshops is certainly the answer to all your mother, birth and baby related concerns.

Founder of Nature’s Way:

The inspiration behind Nature’s Way are 2 adorable angels, whose warm-hearted mother, Umm Muawiyah (Mother of Muawiyah) who also happens to be the founder & owner of Nature’s Way is of British and Arab background. Umm Muawiyah is very passionate about empowering and supporting women throughout her life. She is a generous woman and mother with vision who has been involved and worked in various charitable jobs. Remarkably, she is also a certified AMANI Child Birth Educator and Blossom & Berry Baby Massage Instructor as well as a KG Hypnobirthing Instructor. Have I missed to mention any of her great accomplishments as a woman and mother?

Yes, you are yet to read on and explore more about the conference on your own (for more detailed information), that was initiated by Nature’s Way back in 2015, which was likewise inspired by her personal birth experience.

Nature’s Way website link

Show her some love on Instagram: @natures_way_international

 

Tory Burch Boutique Launch in City Walk

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Tory Burch is the Chairman, CEO and the designer of the American lifestyle brand, launched in Manhattan’s Nolita neighborhood in early 2004. The brand represents distinctive style and intricacy of its founder Tory Burch, an inspiring woman.

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TB store interior. How beautiful are the flowers?

The designer’s brand collection incorporates handbags, accessories, watches, ready to wear and shoes etc. Tory Burch is one fast expanding and popular designer brand, with number of its boutiques present around all the continents.

As I was invited to the launch by The Female Network, a platform for connecting and empowering successful women around the world, to attend the launch of Tory Burch boutique in City Walk, Dubai, I got to witness the top-tier luxury boutique exclusive of public eye. It was indeed an amazing launch and event that brought together many successful and inspiring women in town.

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With the gorgeous and inspiring Shereen Mitwalli

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Tory Burch has already well established its presence in the UAE, with several boutiques across the Emirates. The Tory Burch store interior design in City Walk was custom assembled to match the rest of the Tory Burch stores around the world. The new TB store is breath taking with its entire interior design and collection of shoes, handbags and accessories etc.

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Ready-to-wear collection

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Accessories at TB boutique

 

Burt’s Bees BB Cream with Noni Extract in Light shade

I have been using skin care products from Burt’s Bees for several years now. Throughout I have laid my hands on most of their hand, feet, face & body skin care products. I have dozens of favorite skin care products from Burt’s Bees, some of which are hand, face and foot creams, lotions, moisturizers etc. Since they have a huge variety of skin care products formulated for face, feet, hands, body and even hair care (which I’ve got to try ASAP), I often find it hard to choose and pick one product, because I am certain about each of their products’ results and quality. Burt’s Bees has so far never let down my expectations.

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With Burt’s Bees recently introducing back makeup into their product line, this amazing BB Cream did not make it to my wishlist, but straight to my shopping cart haha. Before I proceed in detailing why I love it, I would summarize and say that it is by far the most lightweight foundation and a super-hydrating lotion (just as Burt’s Bees claims it to be).

Burt's Bees BB Cream Packaging

As evident from its packaging, this BB cream comes with Noni Extract and serves 9 clinically proven benefits. Its ingredients are 98.9% all natural with SPF 15 for protection. It smoothes and evens skin tone and visibly firms, conceals, perfects, and illuminates skin. This BB Cream with SPF 15 is considered as an all-in-one facial cosmetic product to replace serum, moisturizer, primer, foundation and sunblock. It can be worn alone as a tinted moisturizer, over serum and moisturizer as a regular foundation, and under powder, depending on the desired amount of coverage.

Prior to using Burt’s Bees BB Cream with SPF 15, there were couple of other brands I tried and used over the years.  However, since I have started using the BB cream (I use it as a daily routine foundation), I have noticed drastic change in my skin. My skin has become more glowing & flawless. My skin is somewhere between fair and medium light, so the light shade of BB cream was perfect for me! I don’t even need to wear a thick layer of this cream-foundation as it has an ample coverage and blends perfectly. Unlike many other brands I used, this BB cream is very lightweight on my skin and covers up any redness or unwanted spots and blemishes.

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I have not used any filter or smoothening effects. Only played a little with contrast and brightness.

Beside all the above, the most important feature of this BB cream is that I can wear it with confidence for extensive hours throughout the day knowing that it is made of all natural ingredients. Considering I live in Dubai, the city where sun shines throughout the year, this BB cream is my savior in many aspects. It is a super affordable foundation, concealer, hydrating lotion, (moisturizer I would add) & sunblock with SPF 15. What more could I ask for in a routine skin care & beauty product!

For those who are not familiar with Burt’s Bees, their products are some of the most natural products I have ever used and I vouch for their product quality, desired results and amazing ingredients, which in most of their products are at least 95% natural.

You can purchase yours online from www.dubai-store.me. Similarly you can find the store on Instagram.

Disclaimer: I have not been sponsored to write a review on this product. The above is my personal and independent honest review.

Help Your Child Embrace & Love Reading

Why you should read to your newborn

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Research has proven and shown that it is never too early to read a book to/with your bundle of joy. Some may say but the baby barely understands anything; that is the main reason why you should start reading to your little one, so that he grasps on vocabulary & intonation etc. Once you notice your baby enjoy the reading process, you will be tempted to make it a daily ritual. And you must.

I started reading out to Sultan as early as few weeks old. It has been almost a year and half and he is very attached to his books. He often brings his favorite book and hands it over to me to read for him.

Develop love of reading in your baby

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As said earlier, babies might not understand everything, if not anything, of what you read to him, but it is an initial step to help him start picking up different speech tones, rhythms, pitch in your voice and even easy new words. Another research shows that the more a baby is introduced to repeated/frequently used words, the easier it becomes for him to start reading on his own.

Children who grew up watching their parents and elder siblings read often, become more accustomed to reading on their own. They will appreciate books and enjoy reading in the long-term. In my personal experience, I know no one in my immediate family who does not read a book at least once a week. I am proud to have developed this habit in Sultan. He loves his books more than his toys. Such family routine will enhance your baby’s attitude and promote love of reading during schooling and often continue into adulthood.

Precious reading moments for parents to bond with baby

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It is well known that babies and toddlers love their parents’ voices. What other best way to interact and teach your little one from early on, but to read to him his favorite book and the narrator being his parent. Babies first learn things from their parents, why not utilize this opportunity and bond with your baby while helping him learn and appreciate reading.

Stimulate your baby’s brain

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Many of us as adults often run short of vocabulary, due to lack of reading habits. Habits such as frequently reading & listening to the radio etc help our brain capture new vocabulary. Similarly, children who were read to frequently as newborns will have a richer vocabulary & do well in academic studies compared to the other kids their age. Another reason to make reading to your newborn a ritual is that by the age of starting to speak your baby will have fine language skills and confidence. In fact, if you are good at telling made up baby stories, then by no means should you refrain from doing so. No matter what you read to him, any kind of reading is still better than no reading at all. You could as well hold simple dialogues with your baby; all that matters is that he is exposed to more words on daily basis.

Improve your baby’s perception

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All mamas out there whose babies have grown up and now differentiate between shapes, colors and patterns know that it was a transitional period for their babies when they were newborn up to 4 or 5 months old, when all they could do is try focusing eyes on basic patterns on a book’s or magazine’s pages. Therefore, starting early on with picturized books for babies is the most suitable form of reading to your baby. There are tons of such books designed especially for babies to touch, see and learn various shapes, textures and colors. In my personal experience with Sultan, he is fond of any colorful book or magazine. Although he has a designated corner of baby library, he loves reading newspapers and magazines too on his own (baby language).

 

 

 

 

Missed your period? What to do next?

Quick few things to do when you know (or suspect) you are expecting, mama:)

Double check that you are indeed pregnant

It may not be so important, however, it would not harm using a home pregnancy test to detect whether or not you are indeed pregnant. This is probably the first step to confirming that you are expecting. You may use the pregnancy test in the week after your period is normally due – two weeks after you ovulate. If the test shows a negative or a faintly positive result, wait another few days or a week and try again if you still haven’t gotten your period.

The importance of your prenatal vitamin

If you have tried or are trying to conceive, you would have already been told the necessity of taking your folic acid. It is one of the most critical to-dos during the first trimester. It is known that folic acid helps reduce your baby’s risk of developing neural tube birth defect, such as, spina bifida. So, if you haven’t started taking a prenatal vitamin yet, speak to your caregiver/doctor to prescribe you one.

Have you chosen a Hospital / Caregiver yet?

Most married women would already have a favorite doctor. If you are one of them and are comfortable and trust your doctor, then you are all set. However, if you have not had the chance to explore and know a good doctor, then best way to find one is to talk to your friends, colleagues and relatives, who could refer you to a credible caregiver.

Schedule a prenatal appointment with your Doctor

Since many caregivers won’t see you until you are at least 8 weeks pregnant, you might still want to get on their schedule well before this, as appointments can fill up fast.

Beforehand, make sure you have noted down the first day of your last period so your doctor can determine your due date. You may as well want to jot down a list of questions/concerns you would like to bring to your doctor’s attention. It would also help your doctor eliminate any future disorders in your baby, if you would know of any family medical history. Talk to your relatives on both sides about your families’ medical histories. It may help your caregiver to know whether any chronic conditions or genetic abnormalities run in either of your families that might affect your baby.

Discuss any medications you’re taking with your doctor

You might have already heard of this, however, it is important to reiterate and remind that any drugs – even some over-the-counter ones – aren’t safe during pregnancy. If you take any medications to treat a chronic condition, don’t just oversee this matter but do call your caregiver right away to go through your medication list and find out what’s safe and what’s not. Mention everything, even vitamins, supplements, and herbs you are taking.

 

Many women get so excited when they realize that they are pregnant, that they often overlook the importance of going through the above list of to-dos during the first few months (first trimester) of pregnancy.

Please feel free to share, comment and let me know your opinion on this topic.

Importance Of Oral Hygiene

 

The importance of your baby’s early and regular oral hygiene

How to choose a baby toothpaste and when to introduce it?

Considering the amount of toothpaste brands out there on the market, baby doesn’t actually need a special brand. The most important thing to remember and do is introduce baby safe fluoride toothpaste as soon as you notice that first tooth erupt. Another important thing to remember is the baby’s tooth (teeth) only need a streak of toothpaste, since most babies tend to swallow the toothpaste instead of spitting it.

It is highly recommended to expose baby’s teeth (just as for adults) to fluoride as soon as a tooth is starting to emerge; because baby’s teeth absorb fluoride instantly, it is important to make sure the amount of toothpaste is safe for swallowing.

That’s why it is sufficient enough to cover baby’s teeth with a light film of fluoride. So make sure you are playing it safe, because excess of fluoride can be toxic to baby!

Do not get lost while choosing a baby themed toothpaste, as the brand does not matter. What matters the most is that it should contain fluoride. Another thing to remember is that babies under age 1 only require a smear of toothpaste, while elder kids may just do well with a pea size (roughly the size of a grain of rice) of toothpaste applied to their teeth.

Should I use a baby toothbrush and what kind?

As it was suggested by Sultan’s paediatric nurse during his initial dental follow up (at his 6 months appointment) even before he had any teeth, it is best to use a damp washcloth to clean baby’s gums (without any fluoride toothpaste). She had demonstrated how to clean Sultan’s gums step by step; all you need is a washcloth and lukewarm water. Just dampen a washcloth to wipe his gums down at least twice a day. This is a crucial routine to help your baby get accustomed to having toothbrush in his/her mouth.

Once the baby has got a hang of having his teeth brushed, you may move to using a baby tooth brush. Since tooth brushing routine must be in place by the time baby starts teething, during this stage baby likes harder objects to bite on to sooth the gums. When choosing a baby toothbrush, consider to pick one that has soft bristles so it is gentle on your baby’s gums.

Should I show my baby to a paediatric dentist and when?

It may sound weird to recommend your baby to have his first paediatric dentist appointment at as early as 6 months, since there is no much to check up on, however, it is important for your baby to visit a paediatric dentist and keep up with every appointment. Your baby’s paediatric dentist will be able to asses any possible risk factors regarding the oral hygiene. The dentist may educate and state if the parents are doing the right thing to keep the baby’s oral hygiene healthy, such as, when and how much of fluoride toothpaste to be introduced. Also, the dentist will advise whether your baby should be given a bottle of milk during night time, since it is considered as the biggest risk factor for your baby’s first teeth.

Sultan’s paediatric dentist had advised us to gradually stop giving him a bottle of milk at night time, since, formula milk contains sugar, which if given to baby during night time will cause harmful bacteria to develop in his mouth.

Another most common mistake many parents do, is allowing their kids to indulge in excessive drinking of juice. Nevermind the kid’s desire for sugary drinks and foods, it is very important to have the teeth brushed thoroughly afterwards. The logical reason for having to brush your kid’s teeth after such sugary drinks is that juices are very acidic and may cause damage to the kid’s teeth.

All of the above and more questions may be answered by your kid’s paediatric dentist. That’s why it is recommended to have your baby visit the dentist from early on to create a routine experience and get your baby comfortable with the dentist.

Your baby’s diet vs oral health

We are what we eat, they say. Of course food and drinks are the main way a baby’s mouth acquires bacteria. Many toddlers may have a tooth decay due to excessive amounts of sugary foods and drinks they consume.

Apart from a good oral hygiene, depending on diet type, kids grow up to develop a food preference, which will likely remain the same when they grow up.

 

Please feel free to comment and share your personal experience about your kid’s oral hygiene.

Baby Gear Must Haves During The 1st Year

Since my son has turned 15 months old and now walks and runs on his own, I would like to share my TOP favorite and useful baby gear I personally love and recommend during the first year that have helped Sultan develop his motor skills.

I have been constantly on hunt for developmental toys and gear since birth of my son, Sultan. Given the variety of brands and baby gear products available on the market, it is tempting to fall into the marketing techniques, colorful gear and just give in to buying unnecessary or at least non-essential products, which baby could otherwise develop well without. Over the first year since birth of my son, I have managed to identify and pick minimal, yet useful gear that would not just lay around the house without use, but be functional and aid Sultan’s motor skills efficiently and safely.

Before I go on with the list, I would like to mention that I have not been endorsed by any brand or company. So, some of our most used and favorite baby gear are:

  1. Baby Activity Play Mat & Gym. I could not go without this colorful play mat a single day during my son’s first 4 months or more. Regardless of the brand, most of the play mats/gyms come with multifunctional features, such as, contrasting bright and dark colors, fabric textures and several attachable animal toys, which are both, visually and physically highly engaging for babies. This mat helped Sultan develop his basic motor skills. He soon learned to roll from side to side, kick the dangling animal toys with his feet, learn to differentiate between bright and dark colors and most importantly (for me) it kept him busy for at least few hours a day.
  2. Graco Travel System Click Connect™. Very practical and long lasting stroller + car seat. The main feature that attracted me in this travel system is that we did not need to wake up Sultan if he fell asleep in his car seat during a car trip to have him taken out of the car seat. This car seat is made to audibly click onto the stroller that came with it, which means baby can continue sleeping in the car seat which eventually goes on top of the stroller and secures itself safely. It is most useful for parents with babies below 6 months old, since all they do is continuously sleep:) The other cool feature is that the stroller can grow with the baby. The stroller also comes with huge storage space below the baby’s seat, which can accommodate pretty much many grocery items during a quick shopping. Although Sultan is no longer willing to sit in this stroller, we are still using the car seat. To summarize, this is probably the best baby gear on the market at affordable budget that can offer so many features all in one.
  3. Baby Carrier from Baby BJORN. This one is NOT supposed to make it to this list. I had already mentioned that I prefer to buy minimal but practical baby gear, which in this case I failed to stick to. Ever since I bought this carrier (never mind it looks cool and easy to carry the baby in) I have barely used it thrice or less. First of all, it takes forever to have it worn around my waist and chest, secondly it is pretty hard to have the baby put inside without additional 2 hands. Although it has served me a couple of times while grocery shopping with Sultan in it, I would definitely avoid buying this or any other similar carrier. Also it is not very comfortable to wear for long, as my back muscles would ache just after 20 minutes of wearing it. Another drawback of this carrier is that it is overpriced and is of no more use once baby walks on his own.  
  4. Chicco PocketSnack Booster Seat. Most amazing, space saving, affordable, functional and fun gear I have ever purchased. It still served us good. We almost regularly use this booster seat while feeding Sultan and he has a lot of fun in it as we serve his food on the little table attached to the seat. Best feature of this booster seat is that it is attachable to “almost” any regular highchair etc,, since it comes with safety straps to secure/fasten the seat stable in place. Absolutely love this gear and we are planning to keep using it up until Sultan learns to sit in a chair without being fastened. It is also very affordable as far as I can recall.  Our booster seat is in Mint Blue color.
  5. Sit-to-Stand Learning Walker or Push Walker. I cannot remember the brand or company we got this interactive walker from, however, it has been the best gear we ever invested in. It is very affordable and proved to be educative too. As Sultan took his initial independent steps, this walker assisted him and kept him busy playing with all sorts of geometric toys that come with it. One important thing to mention is that an adult’s supervision is necessary at all times. Although Sultan was well walking with this push walker independently, I would still recommend keeping an eye at all times. I believe this walker was very helpful and allowed Sultan to walk around the house without our intervention. This push walker is hands down our most favorite gear. At least now I know I am going to buy a similar gear for my next baby. baby push gear

 

These were a couple of our TOP favorite baby gear (except the baby carrier Baby BJORN). If you would like share your best baby gear during the first year, and reasons why you would recommend them, please let me know down in the comments section.

Separation Anxiety Tips

I always envisaged that I would master the motherhood skills once I become a mother. I day dreamt of the days I would wake up all fresh, get some alone time for my morning coffee, peacefully prepare breakfast for my little family (just the 3 of us) and tackle any domestic and motherhood obstacles throughout the day, all on my own. However, once I stepped into the motherhood, all things became reorganized overnight, priorities had to be changed, and plans for the day split over the span of the week days.

It would amaze me how many women with infant (or more kids) would manage to stay chic, get some “me time” and still tick off lots of tasks for the day. But little did I know, that many of those beautiful women had a reliable source of help and support. As days went by after the birth of my son, I started to realize that there is still a chance to bring back some liveliness and radiance back to my life, my new “motherhood” life. The secret behind this was to easily accept any help and support offered by family and relatives. Luckily, we have our family with us in Dubai and Abu Dhabi, who are constantly arguing who will be looking after Sultan the next week:)

I convinced myself about 5 months post birth to allow my baby to visit my husband’s family every other day. It was a torturing process, having to see my husband take Sultan in his car seat with a pre-filled bottle of milk and a few dangling toys attached to his car seat. Although I knew he will back in couple of hours, but back then it felt like I was not supposed to let him go anywhere without me. On the other hand, in his absence, I managed to get back on track, do the house chores more efficiently, such as cleaning, laundry and cooking etc. Other days I would pump and store away some milk for Sultan to go with him the next time he was taken to the grandparents. It helped me become more organized and anticipate what other plans I could make to fit during those so needed hours of alone time.

I learned to ignore judgmental opinions of strangers, since, when asked where Sultan was, I openly told them he was away at parents’. Not too many strangers would know that I rarely bring in maids to do the house chores for me, since I am a cleanliness freak and do not trust anyone doing my duties and responsibilities. Managing to clean, cook and look after an infant all on your own is literally a race, which anyone will fail without additional help and support. It was a very important lesson I learnt, go with the flow, do as I think is right and do NEVER listen to strangers’ opinions, unless “They have walked in my shoe for a mile”.

I started experiencing and cherishing the true meaning of so called mommy “me time”. Very practical and well utilized time.

Gradually, Sultan stayed with our families over nights. This meant I could begin planning bigger things to accomplish. However, there were quite many tips that were helpful in making sure Sultan’s stay away from us was tantrum and stress free, for him, as well as for us. I would love to share these tips with every parent who is doubting or planning to send their baby to grandparents or nursery / daycare etc.. Here they are:

Be Consistent To Avoid Separation Anxiety

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Although it was very hard to leave Sultan or let him go to grandparents without me, especially that he was still an infant, it is always easier to teach a baby from early on that mama will sometimes be away. The baby might not be realizing the absence of the mother at infancy, however, if you stick to a routine he will grow up to understand that it is actually fun spending some day with his parents and others with grandparents or other relatives (who you trust of course). It is said that babies up to 6 months do not make out the concept of object permanence (the fact that the mother/father exist when they are not with them). That’s why it is best to start early on, even for couple of hours, since by 8 months children become aware that when you leave, you’re somewhere out there, so they’re much more prone to separation anxiety. In our case, Sultan has never experience such anxiety due to our absence, as he stayed at grandparent’s’ regularly for at least 3 times a week.

Make Sure Baby Is Familiar With The Caregiver

Since there is probably no people other than a family we can trust, we only entrust to keep Sultan at grandparents’, either in Dubai or Abu Dhabi. Both the families are well aware of Sultan’s night sleeping & nap routines, what dosage of medication to be given at what intervals (if any), as well as when and what he eats. Sultan knows and recognizes each and every family member, and there has never been a problem with that. Although, in my absence, he tends to seek comfort either at my mother’s or my mother-in-law’s armsJ It is probably his instinct that the woman who feeds, cuddles and plays with him, is the most similar to his mama.

Talk To Your Baby About Why You Going To Be Away

It is no secret that parents and family are encouraged to talk to their children although they are still not capable of understanding every word. Generally, it is very important to talk or to read to your child. However, talking to your child is even more important during separation (short or long). Every time before he goes away from you, since he relies on your voice tone and attitude from birth onwards, tell him he is going to grandparents and that he will have so much fun there. But also make sure to tell him that mommy is going to come back.

Wave And Say Good-Bye

No wonder Sultan has learnt to understand and wave us a good-bye and a blow kiss. Every time he goes away, I make sure to kiss, hug and wave him good bye. This way he adapted to separation easily. Sometimes I sing him his favorite rhyme before he goes, just to reassure him that everything is okay.

 

 

The most important lesson Sultan has learned is that when I am away, he will be safe and will have fun regardless whether I am around or not, and that eventually when mommy is back she will take him out to a playground.

My Motherhood

3 Milestones I Have Overcome As A New-Mom

Almost 2 years ago, during my entire pregnancy I was all absorbed in so called “internet knowledge“, which consisted all about what to expect during and post pregnancy as first time mom. Whether I had to know all of that information beforehand or not, in a way it prepared me to deal with anxiety and geared me up for what was going to happen to me “the first time” in my life. By then I had been exposed to sufficient enough mommy-to-be tips from my family and friends. Of course all that helped me, theoretically. However, the real “first time mommy” instincts kicked in on their own soon as I delivered Sultan.

1. Milestone: Unscheduled (UNEXPECTED)  C-Section

As painful as it is recalling those countless hours of continuous labor pain and unforeseen circumstances, through which we (me and my baby) had to suffer together; I believe there is absolute beauty in overcoming those hardships.

I was always regular on my monthly pregnancy check ups, prescribed medications and ultrasounds etc. There was absolutely no sign of complication as such, and I was more than confident that my baby would come out all healthy and naturally when he is ready. Unfortunately, not everything takes place as planned and despite of being advocate of “all natural”;  I was almost forced into accepting to go through an emergency C-section during my failed labor and contractions.

My baby was well delivered within an hour of anaesthetics dosage given to me. As you may have read in my previous posts, Sultan was born weighing whopping 3.9kg (MashaAllah), which could well be the reason for unscheduled C-section.

All is well that ends well.

It was a great challenge taking care of a newborn, managing to endure the incision pain (not an enthusiast of pain killers), breastfeeding for straight first 5 months, continuously pumping milk for storing for later and of course not forgetting the all needed attention that any husband requires.

Ultimately it was all worth it; especially now that my baby is showing great milestones progress on monthly, if not, daily basis.

2. Milestone: Breastfeeding

The urge to have my baby latch on to have some milk about 30 minutes post his birth was undoubtedly an instinct that I never envisioned doing during my pregnancy; although I had read a lot about lactation tips. I had completely ignored the fact that I just came out of operation room. All that did not matter a bit.

I remember requesting the nurse to bring me my baby for feeding, when she gently smiled and replied, “Your baby isn’t hungry yet. You need to rest”. This sounded to me somehow pushy; (relax we know better than you what and when your baby needs!). Frankly speaking I did not have much power to resist her, but I kept insisting and raised my tone this time, “I feel he is hungry, so please bring him now!”. Obviously, she would not be in the position to argue with me any further.

Shortly I had my son in my weak arms and he immediately latched on and sipped of some fresh colostrum (first milk). This was one of the check points I promised myself not to miss on, as I had read lots of great things about allowing baby to drink the first milk, rich in vitamins and nutrition.

 

3. Milestone: Weaning

I was all equipped with baby feeding bottles, milk storage containers and breast pump prior to giving birth. I was not sure whether I will require some or all of these products, but I decided to stock up for emergency situations.

Luckily, all of the bottles, containers etc, came in handy when I felt the need to pump and store for when my husband would take my son for short walk on his own (without me); or for visiting his grandparents for over night stay. Thankfully, there was always oversupply of milk and I never faced shortage whatsoever.

However, as time went by, I started to feel locked up at home, mainly due to the reason that I had quit my permanent job after getting married and was all soaked up in diapers, milk and homemaking commitments. My partial post partum depression started fading away when Sultan began showing interest in powdered formula milk while he was away from me for couple of hours.

The weaning process began naturally on its own; but mainly with the aid of Sultan it was made easy on both of us (if not all of us in the family). He never refused or fussed being offered formula milk and he was fast accustomed to bottle feeding. It was in a way heartbreaking to realize that I did not complete 2 years of breastfeeding him as recommended worldwide, however, I was somehow relieved of the guilt when doctors did not interfere nor discouraged me from weaning process. Honestly speaking, toward the 6th month my milk supply was lower than ever before, mainly because I started pumping more infrequently and gradually milk supply went down.

It makes me proud to be a mama who managed to (at least) stick to breastfeeding for continuous 5 months, which I know for a fact is not a necessary aspect for many women who for some or the other reasons cannot breastfeed at all. It is a personal choice every individual mother makes, no one is to be judged at all.

 

Thank you for reading my most heartfelt confession on my experiences as a first time mommy. Please feel free to share your personal motherhood experience, knowledge and/or advice.